Addressing Financial Concerns: The expenses associated with raising children can stretch a family's resources. When a child has a disability, particularly one
that involves high-priced medical care, a family can quickly become overwhelmed financially. While it is often difficult to
resolve financial concerns completely, there are a number of things parents can do that may help. Charlotte Thompson
recommends that, as soon as parents find out that their child has a disability, two actions should be taken immediately. These
are:
Start a program to organize and manage your new financial demands. "This not only means management of everyday
money, but it also means keeping very careful track of your medical bills and payments" (Thompson, 1986, pp. 101-102).
There are a number of money management guides available that explain how to do this.
Seek information about any and all financial assistance programs. "If the state agency caring for handicapped children is
contacted immediately, it may be able to assume financial responsibility for your child's care right from the start" (Thompson,
1986, p. 102).
Often, so much attention is focused on the provision of health care that doctors and other medical staff may not mention
available sources of financial aid. Many states have passed legislation intended to help families of children with a disability
address their financial concerns, but parents will need to be "well focused and persistent" to get the answers they need.
Many children with disabilities are eligible to receive Supplemental Security Income (SSI) benefits, based upon their
disability. A recent Supreme Court decision (Sullivan v. Zebley) has created changes in the eligibility requirements for these
benefits. Because of these changes, many more children are now eligible than in the past. Some children who formerly were
denied benefits (i.e., after January 1, 1980) may even be eligible for back benefits. Therefore, it is a good idea for all families
with a child who is blind or who has a disability to apply for SSI. If a child is found eligible for SSI, he or she is automatically
eligible for Medicaid benefits, even if the family income is higher than what is traditionally required for Medicaid in that state.
This is very important for children with disabilities who may have many medical needs. (Clark & Manes, 1992)
If your child qualifies for Medicaid, most early intervention services can be paid for by Medicaid. If your child qualifies for
Medicaid, it is important to have him or her assessed by a provider qualified to perform the Early Periodic Screening,
Diagnostic, and Treatment (EPSDT) program. If an EPSDT program determines that your child has a condition that requires
treatment because of "medical necessity," then it can be paid for by Medicaid. Furthermore, each state has a "Child Find"
system, which is responsible for locating and assessing children with disabilities. This is required to be free by Federal law.
But sometimes, even though there is not supposed to be a waiting list, it can take a long time to get your child assessed.
Therefore, it is important to know about what other resources can be used to get help for your child.
Private insurance benefits are one such resource. Usually, nursing, physical therapy, psychological services, and nutrition
services can be reimbursed by private insurance. In some cases, occupational therapy and speech therapy are also
reimbursable. Educational expenses related to a child's disability are only rarely covered by insurance. However, it is useful
to keep track of educational expenses, because these are deductible on your Federal income tax returns.
Some additional resources to contact in your search for financial assistance include:
Hospital social workers;
Public health department;
Public health nurses;
Volunteer agencies;
Disability organizations; and
State government agencies (usually listed under "State Government" in the telephone book), particularly those departments
that oversee programs for children with disabilities.
Because searching for assistance may involve a lot of telephone calls, it is a good idea to have paper and pen at hand to
record the names and telephone numbers of all those you contact, as well as any referrals they give you. Whether or not you
believe your income is too high for your family to quality for financial aid:
"...the key is to keep trying -- to get more information, to follow up leads, and to continue applying for various types of
financial assistance. This may seem like an endless paperwork maze to you, but with luck some of the paper at the end will
be the green kind that can help you pay your child's medical bills. Keep at it." (Thompson, 1986, p. 103)
Future Planning: It is not possible for parents to imagine all the stops and detours that they will make as their unexpected journey takes them
into the future. But you will probably be thinking at different times about what the future holds for your child. Advocates
believe it is important for parents to have expectations about what their child with disabilities can achieve in the future and to
encourage their child to develop as much independence as possible, given the nature and severity of the disability (Dickman,
1993).
Over the past 20 years, the options for children and adults with disabilities have greatly expanded. Schools have developed
specialized educational techniques to promote learning and the acquisition of functional skills that will enable individuals with
disabilities to have choices about where they live, work, and play, and who they have as friends. The movement to include
individuals with disabilities in the mainstream of school life is growing, with significant pressure coming from parents. The
premise behind inclusion is that individuals with disabilities should not be segregated but, rather, should have the same
opportunities that individuals without disabilities have -- that is, the same opportunities to go to neighborhood schools, to be
educated alongside their nondisabled peers, to participate as fully as possible in school activities. However, for inclusion to
work, school systems must provide each student with supports appropriate to his or her needs. Support, training, and
technical assistance also must be made available to teachers and to nondisabled peers. Therefore, it is important for parents
to be aware of how inclusion decisions are made in regard to their child and to advocate for supports they feel their child, his
or her teacher, and the peer group need in order for the inclusive setting to be a successful one.
Inclusion, however, means more than just including students with disabilities in mainstream school activities. Students will
grow up, leave the school setting. What does the future hold for them as adults? This is, naturally, of great concern to
parents, disability advocates, disability organizations, and persons with disabilities themselves. For far too long, students have
exited the school years to an adult life that lacked opportunities for employment, further education, or community
participation (McLaughlin, 1993). Now, with the help of federal legislation and the advocacy of many concerned parties,
adult life for individuals with disabilities holds increasing promise. The Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) now
requires that school personnel, parents, and each student with disabilities (16 years of age or older, and, in many cases,
younger) plan for the student's transition from school to post- school environments, including employment, additional
education or training, independent living, and community participation (Wandry & Repetto, 1993). This legislation is intended
to prepare youth with disabilities for the adult world and roles they will encounter upon leaving high school, with the purpose
of maximizing their participation in the mainstream of society. Furthermore, the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) has
incorporated into law provisions that guarantee many of inclusion's principles as individual rights. No longer may most child
care centers refuse to serve children because they have a disability. No longer may a qualified individual be denied
employment because he or she has a disability. Public accommodations must now be accessible to all individuals. Many
states have been working actively to establish community- based supports so that individuals with disabilities can lead their
lives as independently as possible.
Ensure that your child has the opportunity to acquire skills now that will make him or her as independent as possible in the
future.
Ensure that your child has opportunities to develop social skills that can be used in a variety of settings (regular classroom
settings and exposure to many different environments are useful in this regard).
Write a will that will provide for your child's care and safeguard his or her eligibility for government benefits. (For more
information about estate planning, request a copy of Estate Planning from NICHCY.) Some states now provide for
self-sufficiency trusts which allow parents to leave money to a child with a disability without disqualifying that child (even of
adult age) from government benefits. Other states require that a special needs trust be established.
Teach your child to be responsible for his or her own personal needs (e.g., self-care, household chores).
Work with the school and other agencies to ensure that transition planning for your son or daughter takes place and
addresses training for future employment, coordination with adult service providers, investigating postsecondary education or
training, and participation in community activities.
Help your child develop self-determination and self-advocacy skills.
Explore different possibilities for living arrangements once your son or daughter is grown.
Learning that your child has a disability or illness is just the beginning of the journey. At times, you may feel overwhelmed by the challenges
associated with disability and by the strength of your own emotions. And while you may feel alone and isolated, there are many supports available. Other parents can be invaluable sources of help and information. Services are also available --
early intervention services for young children, educational services for school-aged children, services available through public agencies that can assist your entire family. Having access to information and supports may be critical in maintaining a stable
and healthy family life.
We urge you to read, to talk to other parents who have a child with a disability, to talk with each other and with other family members, and to reach out for assistance when you need it.